Housekeeping for Beginners, directed by Goran Stolevski, is a heartwarming exploration of family dynamics, both the ones we inherit and the ones we create. Set against the backdrop of North Macedonia, the film weaves together themes of love, identity, and acceptance.
Dita, portrayed by the talented Anamaria Marinca, never aspired to be a mother. Yet, life throws her into an unexpected role when she becomes the guardian of her girlfriend’s two daughters: the mischievous Mia and the rebellious Vanesa. Their clashing personalities form the crux of the story, as they navigate their way toward an unlikely family bond.
Housekeeping for Beginners shines in its portrayal of the LGBTQ+ community. The film adds depth and relatability by depicting the struggles and triumphs of queer characters. The performances, especially from the young actors, elevate the narrative beyond mere storytelling.
The house they share becomes a simulation of life itself—a place where love, friction, and growth intertwine. The music, now folkier than before, underscores the transformation from mere shared accomodation to a genuine home. Stolevski masterfully explores universal truths about family. Whether born into it or chosen, family bonds are powerful and resilient. The film reminds us that love, not blood, defines our connections.
While the central trio shines, some secondary relationships feel underdeveloped. A deeper exploration of these connections could have enriched the narrative further. Housekeeping for Beginners won the Queer Lion at the Venice Film Festival. Its delightful blend of drama and comedy resonates with audiences worldwide. The characters—outcasts in their own ways—find solace and strength in each other.
The film isn’t about tidying up chaos; it’s about creating a sense of belonging. The love that binds them—the lubrication and cement—transforms their shared space into a sanctuary. Housekeeping for Beginners is a cozy, uplifting watch. It invites us to reflect on our own families, chosen or otherwise, and appreciate the messy, beautiful journey of building a home together.
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